tips for u girls out there!!

i was just formatted my laptop few weeks back, n all my docs were transferred to one new file..while checking some of the docs to be removed, i found this one long lost article (dreamt to be published in my other blog, but the account seemed to be no longer valid) so, klw rajin bacalah..tips berharga disitu haha

In a new relationship, there are several points that should be noted by the girls regarding their partner which is the guys. First, is to know whether that guy has really turned into you and how much his sincerity with you. Well, how should we notice this? In my belief, I trust that an honest generous guy will try to get with you in the nicest way he can. No such thing as stalking, asking you forcibly for a date or being too controlling on your movements and activities even you are not in a relationship yet. These kind of aggressive behaviors show that the man is perhaps a psycho or just a freak that really needs attention. I do think that if a guy is being very serious to get to know you, he would accept any of your decision earnestly rather than being unacceptable or intolerable. Sometimes, girls just don’t have that feeling towards the guys and they would prefer to be friends with them. If the guys really want you, he’ll give you some times to think so that you will be able to make a decision. And if you decide to accept his proposal, you will accept him as him in the same way he want you as you. Isn’t that sweet?

Next, for your first step in such a new relationship, learn to be considerable and tolerate with each other. In this level, both of you as a partner still need times to get to know each other well, your favorite foods, songs, places and even things that not in your lists. At first you will feel depress like why he didn’t understand you. Why he didn’t treat you as the way you wanted to or why he makes you upset. It’s actually a normal thing, guys are not given or provided with such emotional sensitivity like we girls have. That is why they often fail to recognize other people’s feelings, whether we are annoyed, unfocused, irritated, angry or even interested with them. Hence, as an emotion-sensitive creature, as a girl, we can impress them by showing our concern if they have any problems so that slowly they will learn to concern about us in another way. Try to avoid any fight with curse and swear words. It will be a lot better to discuss calmly and listen to each other. Instead of being worst, those fights will now be an alternative for both of you to know each other better and strengthen your purely compassionate love which had just began.